LOVE

It has been years since we started to know each other, from a friend, becoming good friend, then my boyfriend, and now my dear hubby... Along the journey slowly i begin to understand what is love... Only the person whom you love unconditionally will be able to make you cry because of them and make you laugh and cheer u up the next second... You will readily forgive and your heart will melt once your loved one hugs and apologizes, no matter how mad u were before this...
Love you hubby..

A lie to myself

No hope no disappointment. Not looking forward towards anything no disappointment . It is just as simple as that. I m very well aware of it since long time ago.  Yet, I couldnt stop myself from hoping... i give thousands of excuses to myself to continue to hope and to look forward to certain thing... though again and again it was being smashed into pieces but I picked them up and put them back together. Probably I m just scared to accept the reality the truth. Probably it is never a reciprocal.
good night 

it is still the same...

Almost 9 months have passed... I thought I have let go and accepted whatever it is.. but I didn't. The disappoinment, anger, sadness, regret, urge to seek revenge etc seeped into my mind and heart without me inviting them. But i cannot do anything other than feeling sad--isolate myself--cry--self-psycho myself that all these will be over and one day i can enjoy the company of my soul mate just like others--feel better after few days. It is just a vicious cycle that I m still unable to break. Keep reminding myself that I have my family with me, so i dun have to feel sad at all. Yet, saying good byes is getting harder and harder as time goes by.. I start to hate the word "good bye"...it is just an english word that is meaningless when u said to a stranger, but it is a word which carries pain and tears when you said that to someone u love, whom again and again throughout the years u need to repeat that word to. I dun wish to say good bye anymore... I m tired and fed-up of  it. WHy me and why not others? no answer.
Is time to sleep. Tml wil be another day.

yenny  

future remains a bleak...

 I finished my 2nd posting, paediatrics, not long ago. All went well. I enjoyed first 2 postings. I m currently in my 3rd posting, medical, so far so good...No problem at work so far.. Blessed to have nice colleagues , MOs and Specialists...On the other hand, an important part of my life is still missing...future uncertain.. just keep on praying and hoping.. at times just dunno wat to wish for...
Life moves on.. luckily work keeps me busy all day.

yenny

life currently...

Life as a HO for the past 1 month plus in surgical department is so far so good, blessed with nice collegues, MOs and specialist. Year 2011 is coming to an end soon, a year that is full of ups and downs, surprises and new encounters, new experiences, and conflicts. Recently, there are a lot of things to worry, hope all these will end together with year 2011.. may god protect me.

yenny

God's lesson

After about 1 month of blissful life, my life is again being attacked by stressor after stressor. I have no control over it. Today my appeal to AS got rejected. I feel extremely sad, angry, dissapointed, hopeless, and jealous. But I cannot do anything about it. I m alone. What I can do is just trying hard to hold the tears back, along the way from PD to airport in the car, and also during the flight, somehow it still trickled down no matter how hard i tried, luckily they dimmed the light while landing. The news is like stabbing me in the heart. Probably it is all because I put in too too much hope of getting AS hoping to be together with my husband leading a life together at least for one solid year. I always thought at least now after all these years, finally I can have my husband as my main pillar of strength in these 2 tough years. But, it looks like it is not God's plan for us. Probably this is God's punishment for me, to give me a lesson. The more you try to avoid something, the more likely you will get it. It is very true. That's the cruelty of life. I feel totally demotivated, having anhedonia, and all the enthusiasm that i had before I knew the reply , all of a sudden, lost. I don't feel excited to go to work anymore, I don't feel like I want to improve anymore. I just wanna do nothing. All these are bad bad emotions, which I hope with time, it will become better...Again I am reminded not to put too high hope on anything in future. No one could understand my feelings now... 2 years. I hope these 2 years fly away in a blink of an eye. I dunno.. I keep consoling myself saying probably this is the God's best arrangement for me, is it?

HOME FOR GOOD =)

Finally after all the hard work throughout the years, I finally obtained my degree =). Thanks to my mum and dad (who keep praying for my success, asking me not to worry, just do my best..) sister & bro and my great friends who supported me along the way in manipal and melaka.. And lastly but not the least is my darling, without him, I would most probably have given up halfway..He has been with me through thick and thin, listening to me all the time, bearing with my temper tantrum, and trying his best to console and comfort me during those sleepless stressful nights before major exams.. During moments when I could not stand the stress anymore, he would always be there, listening to me crying over the phone...Thank you darling from the bottom of my heart.. I love u..
Now on the way back home for good... final departure from melaka to alorstar... A wonderful ending for the 7 years training...

yenny

sunshine again =D

I had a wonderful weekend..thanks to my dear... for the past 24 hours, I am feeling so happy and blessed and loved...
I hope I can see my darling in my dream tonight =) and may god protect and provide me strength to study properly tomorrow..

yenny

beginning of the final lap

today technically begins my last study break after a long 7 years journey .. hopefully this is the last and the final one... It is a mixture of feelings..top of the list is always an uninvited enemy "FEAR" of not be able to reach the finishing line as expected... Time is ticking away.. I pray to god that please protect me from unwanted stressors during this period of time.. please let me study with a peace of mind... please provide me strength to overcome all the negative emotions and not to be affected by anyone anything at all..
Had a great time in the Hall yesterday cheering together with my batchmates, hope ALL of us will reach the finishing line together this time and none being left behind.

yenny

Life is difficult

Things become more and more difficult recently... in all aspects of my life... O God, assist me.. I just tell myself to be patient and be strong and remind myself to be happy.. All will become better someday or probably I will be forced to become stronger and colder or in a nicer term "independent" a word which i hated all the while..
Sometimes I wonder, do I really demand so much? I keep asking myself that question.. i think I m not.. All the while I just want company, time, love, care and concern... is it too much to ask for? Probably all is not possible now... which makes me sad most of the time...I know I shouldn't be sad, I should change my thinking bla bla bla.. easier said than done.. I hope I can but I couldn't.. Life goes on...
By writing it down makes me feel better somehow...
I think I shall just go to the Hall and sit there watching the world around me.

yenny